I'm so irratated😒 UPDATE

So let me preface this by saying I love my husband more than words and we have a great relationship 99% of the time. This month my husband and two kids (1 and 3 months) and I moved into our new house. Considering moving expenses etc and the amount we spent on Christmas gifts for the kids etc we had to break into our savings towards the end of the month which is fine, that's what it's there for. Considering this my husband and I agreed that we weren't going to give each other gifts this year and we would treat ourselves valentines days instead. Well my dad ended up gifting us $2000 as a housewarming/Christmas gift. As soon as my husband realized this he started going on and on about how he wants a Christmas gift now and have me a list of modification parts he needs for his truck. Long story short I ended up spending $500 on all these things (because he kept going on about it) and he got a late Christmas gift. I asked him if I could get myself something small and he said he didn't think it was a good idea since we are going shopping New Year's Day to get the kids all the next size up in clothes and so one of us has to forego a Christmas gift so we can stay on budget and don't spend more of our savings😒 I was pissed but I made my peace with it. This conversation happened yesterday btw. So then last night I was up with baby for a while because she's going through a sleep regression so it was agreed upon he would take care of our toddler. Long story short as soon as I got the baby to sleep in the bassinet he brings out crying toddler (he had a nightmare) into our bed and told me to deal with the crying. So right now it's 11am and I've been up since 6am with both kids (running on two hours sleep) while my husband is still in bed. Might I add he went to sleep at 9pm last night so he's not exhausted😒 I don't really know what I wanted out of this post I just wanted to vent😩