So I am 9 weeks and 4 days along and last night was rough. My friends all know that I like to have a glass of wine or two when we all go out and it was VERY noticeable that I didn't last night (mainly because I've been the DD for all the Christmas parties as well). My friends pick up on everything and one even asked point blank! This pregnancy started off as twins and we lost one so we aren't ready to tell anyone at this point. We live in a small town so I'm really nervous that it's going to get out before we are ready. I'm at the point where I'm wondering if I should just tell them and also tell them why it needs to remain quiet or just hang tight and let nature do it's work.