I think one of the worst things about having to have assisited fertility is watching everyone announce their pregnancies, and then just waiting to see the name hoping it isn't the ones you have picked out for your first born. Especially when you've had them picked out for a few years, just waiting to get that positive test. My cousins named their son my girl name. They don't know I struggle to get pregnant, and they didn't know the name, but it still just hurts. Anyone else feel this way?