I need some help.
So I've recently been posting about how my baby daddy left me.
Here was the last post so I don't have to go on and on again.
My baby daddy broke up with my right before Christmas. We just moved into a home two months prior to that. And before that we had only been back together for a month. He's left me about 4 times. Three times now while pregnant. He told me I was selfish and was negative and he couldn't deal anymore. I've had complication after complication and I just haven't been very happy. And every fight he put me down. So I was starting into a depression. Well it's been a week and a half now since we've been over and some days are better than others. he is almost 30. This is his second child. He's seen his other daughter 4 times and she is 6. Granted they live in another state so it's hard for him to get to see her. He lives now back with his mother. He sees no wrong with anything he's done to me and he sees nothing wrong with his attitude or what's he's done. He put himself in 7000$ of debt. I sat there and tried to do what I could. Couples counseling, anything. He sat there with his legs crossed and didn't care and said he didn't love me anymore.. He's mentally torn me apart and he's verbally abusive. He says he is going to be a part of her life and do everything he can. But he gives me no respect and I'm carrying his child. I hate being in the middle of my daughter and her father. Ugh.
Anyways. I created such a wonderful bond with his mother. We were just texting about how she looks like him and it came up to where she told me that she does not agree with any of his actions and that she will still do everything she can for me. She really was becoming a second mother to me, calling me her daughter in law. The works. And she deserves to be a grandmother this time around, seeing as she doesn't ever get to see her other grandchild. Now can you still have that bond with the mom even though her son did what he did to me? I don't even want to speak to him. Has anyone else been in this situation and how did it go?
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