transgender thought

I really don't want anyone to take offense to this but I need some help with processing my thought about a certain subject. If a born female wants to transition to a male because they got stuck in the wrong body, I'm all for that. It's their life, & they should feel comfortable doing as they please. But here's the thing, if a man is still having a period bc they were born with female parts, than okay. That sucks because periods suck but it doesn't affect me. HOWEVER, when fucking Jenner won the award for woman of the year or whatever tf is what I was LIVID. The way I see it, you can consider yourself a female sure (if you were born male and transition to female) BUT you CANNOT call yourself a WOMAN or win the award for it, if you do not have to deal with the emotional heart breaks of a first love, or the first time you have sex (to the extent females do) or if you don't bleed every month for 7 days straight from your vagina and cry because of cramps & cry because your hair is too cute or really horrible. Or if you can't birth a child & go through all of that tremendous pain. I could go on and on about the shit women have to deal with that men don't. So I can, in good faith say, yes you are a female, but I can't say, yes you are a woman. If you disagree, please explain why because I can't figure out why I'm okay with it being reversed but that's just how I feel. Insight & thoughts. You can be ignorant but I won't igknowlegde it.