rules for visitors after baby

Dani
Okay y'all, I am not trying to be rude by any means but I don't want a million people at my house and I don't want them all swooning at the same time either. I also don't want super long visits. I don't want people coming in smelling like cigarette smoke and if someone has been sick with a fever I would prefer they not visit either. My boyfriend thinks I'm being too over protective but I don't want my little baby getting sick. 
I want us to have our family bonding time and I don't feel like he is taking my feelings into consideration. I am 39 weeks and extremely emotional but I am serious about the above. What is the nicest way I can compile the list without sounding like a total b?