HELP!!! MAN ADVICE! IM NOT HAPPY WITH THE GUY IM SEEING ANYMORE

It's all the things that I need to bring up with him that frustrate me or upset me.

What do I do....?

EDIT: I've been seeing him for over a year. My bestfriend thinks he's being shady. The "Rasha thing" was about him saying he told people about me at his work and then it was his birthday back in December and she posted something on his wall and at the end it said "ladies he's single 😘" which is technically true, but why would she say that if she knew about us...? And he said "oh don't worry about it she's just my silly coworker." But I questioned him about why she'd say that if she knew about me and he switched it saying he kept his personal life out of his work life. So he's obviously lying. 

Also about the family thing. He's been to my house TWICE since I first started seeing him. May I remind you it's been over a year. And has met my mom ONCE. I've been to his home thousands of times and met pretty much his whole family. It makes my mom upset and like we aren't good enough for him. 

So my mom and bestfriend hate him.

I just don't know how to leave because he thinks everything is ok and for the most part I pretend like it is...