I don't understand?!

Question

So my boyfriend and I have had sex (please don't turn the topic into "you're too young!" Okay yeah whatever) and he's actually really pretty big. We have done it a couple of times but I haven't bled due to my hymen breaking. Do I just not have a hymen? Why haven't I bled? I don't understand.

Answer

Your hymen doesn't break. It stretches. Not everyone bleeds.

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It's perfectly normal girl. It's actually a myth about the hymen break. If it does tear or bruise it heals back. It mainly stretches. If you bleed it normally means not enough lubrication.

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You hymen doesnt break! Thats a huge myth because other girls usually tear thier hymen and bleed from it but if you are gentle and wet enough your hymen stretched. My boyfriend is pretty big as well and we were worried about blood and pain and I didnt even have any pain or blood. Now its years later and sometimes I wish his dick was smaller just because Im so petite its hard to get him inside me even with lube without it hurting a little. Good luck!

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My hymen broke due to gymnastics. A hymen could be broken from riding a bike to wearing tampons. So it may have already been broken before your first time.

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If you use tampons it's possible that it already broke earlier.

I don't understand?!

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