no sex with + opk

so i've been ttc for a few months and really felt like this was the month, but my husband would not have sex with me today... i'm very upset since my opk was + and my apps say this is the best day. he acts like it's no big deal, but i truely want a baby soon. i'm hurt and feel like my chances are over and it's never going to happen. i'm just looking for some support here, i'm not very open about this and no one knows i'm really trying to get pregnant so i have no one to talk to.