I'm new to the app

Hey I've been on this app for about a week now and I just want to know why there is just so much hostility... I get it: it is the internet but isn't this a place to bring girls up? I saw one person say another person is going to hell for raising their kid gender neutral/raise them with girl and boy toys. Unplanned pregancy is also really common and some women are so rude. I don't understand. Especially with lifestyle. How you raise a kid is none of anyone's concern really as long as you don't raise them to be horrible people so I really don't get why someone with a different opinion feels the need to go full-on hatred on these women. Keeping this anon so that no one attacks me next. It just seems unproductive.