on. a. break.

Savannah • a mountainess
My beautiful boyfriend and I have been together a long time. Last year we had a three month break because we lived so far apart. I had fun and dated another guy in between... but now we're in the same place
This time, I went home with a guy, who I didn't do anything with but was super flirty and sitting on the counter while he came close to me. (Knows this because we have a security camera in the house 😕)
I realize I really messed up, we stayed together about a week after the incident, but he was distant and I was trying too hard. I feel like he wants to hook up with someone to make himself feel like he got some too? He kept saying "during this time apart" when he told me how he felt. Can this one come back around? I am doing me, but we separated all my stuff and I'm moving...
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Li

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You had a guy over and you know there's security cameras IN the house? ......

Li

Lia • Jan 15, 2017
I wouldn't trust someone either who blames bad decisions on alcohol. Advice: maybe you should take accountability for your actions and buckle down for this long journey of proving yourself to your mate that you are worthy of trust. And no more drinking, clearly.

Sa

Savannah • Jan 15, 2017
Alcohol.

De

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That's a tough one. We took a two month break and it was pretty ugly! When we got back together it was because we both chose to work together to be together

Sa

Savannah • Jan 15, 2017
I like this. We're both telling our fams we are still together, but we were both supposed to move into the bigger house and he is staying longer at the old one ☹️ I said I want to work on things, but can't do it alone

J

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What?

Sa

Savannah • Jan 15, 2017
Looking for advice/stories of similar situations