My fiancé and I haven't been together super long. He had two kids from an ex he's still married to and another kid from a relationship after that. I've grown the love them all even though I've had a hard time with his youngest. I had a 3 year old from a one night stand when I was 19. I'm currently pregnant with his child now. We have had issues with his baby mamas not liking me and stuff and me having a hard time adjusting to his youngest. It's caused serious fights where a few days ago he was going to leave me because he thinks I treat my 3 year better and his 1st baby mama threatened to keep his kids because I'm around. We just got a house together and the boys share a room and his daughter had her own room and we are in the living room. He won't establish rules with them and it drives me insane. He gets his youngest every two days and his other two only on the weekends. My son is here full time. We've also had an issue finding me good income because I don't drive and I'm a high risk pregnancy. I get about 8-13 hours a week at papa Johns. My income issue makes him resent me and starts fights. I love him so much and I love our little family but I'm not sure what to do. Half the time he's an amazing fiancé and the other half he makes me feel like shit. I don't know what to do anymore. Anyone have any advice? I just feel like I'm not wanted without good money and I feel like my two children are put last. His mom also hates me and likes to put shit in his head. Makes things so much worse. He calls me a child and tells me he can find someone who does everything I do with better income and no favoritism with the kids. I'm trying my best and he doesn't recognize that. Now he says everything is his way til I get a better job. I'm stressed and hurt. I love him and do t wanna lose him but I need what's best for my kids and I. What do I do?