I hate when older moms try to tell me what's best for me and my baby .   Just because something worked for you 10+ years ago doesn't mean it'll work for me . I'm sorry that you're stuck in the old times , the World has advanced a lot within the last 10 year w/ medicine and so much more . If I choose to do yoga during my pregnancy that's bc I feel safe doing it . I refuse to sit in the house  and be a potato for the next 7 months . I'm a millennial, I work a full time job, Graduated high school 2 years early & became a registered nurse .  We  OWN two cars! I'm 21 and in 5 months my SO & I will own our house . Not many 21 &22 year olds are in the same place as us and I get that you're probably used to the lazy "youngsters" , we had a goal and we're achieving it  . Sorry you don't agree w/ us having a baby before marriage . We truly love one another and wanted to add a new addiction to our family . Fuck your rules and standards . We're doing just fine w/ the path we chose .