anyone check their cervix and cm??

Iv been checking my cervix and cm for the last 2 months(I know it's not accurate to do) .... Iv read that it's suppose to drop near/during af but my cervix has stayed high before and still is after my af.. (af was 4th until 9th January) spotted on the 4th and 5th.. light bleeding on 6th and 7th followed by spotting again on the 8th and 9th.. just checked my cervix and my cm is wet and semi lotiony... any ideas? Ttc for the last 2-3 months 
I know no one will probably reply to this..