With a few inexpensive pictures, a rug, curtains, etc. and he doesnt see why she would need any of those things which really surprises me because I never thought this would be an argument in the first place...its our baby so like me he should want her to come home to a nice area specifically for her. So far out of all things that have been purchased for her through me or family he has only bought her a pack of booties. And Im not keeping count of what he gets because its not about that however it concerns me when I go to ask him if he can help buy things for her room he seems to either have an excuse, tells me to just ask other people for it as a baby shower gift, or just blows up and tells me to get it myself. I found a 8 dollar rug on amazon and I asked him to get it this weekend and he keeps saying he wants to wait until bills have been cleared out his account (even though. He has been making purchases on other things for hisself all weekend) which is why I didnt think it was a big deal to ask. He tells me that she is not here yet and he doesnt see the need to get stuff for her until she is here which is a dumb idea because if thats the case baby showers would be after the baby is born and not before. He talks about all this stuff he wnats to get when she gets here but he doesnt seem to get that its betyer to get it now before she gets here and we have the extra money to do so. Once she is here all expenses will be for what she needs at that moment and not to decorate a nursery that should already be done. Other than putting together the baby furniture which I begged him to do, He has no interest in helping me with her room and doesnt seem be interested in what I find for her room when I show him stuff and that is a turn off for me. Just talking to my baby bump is not enough! I dont mind people getting stuff for her but I also want to get stuff for her as well together as the parents. I can go into the mall and go straight for baby stuff or stuff for her and he just worries about hisself and what he could buy for him :( why do I feel like I care more than him? Am I overreacting? Sorry this is long!