spotting after miscarriage

So I had a miscarriage 31- 3rd and stopped bleeding around the 6th. Anyway my husbands been "afraid" to have sex with me since so a couple days ago I used my rabbit (we're okay with each other using toys if we aren't in the mood he has his I got mine) and I've noticed since then a little bit of brown when I wiped (like old blood mixed with cm) it was my first pregnancy/miscarriage and I wanted to know if this was normal. I wasn't rough with it and it wasn't on full speed so I think that was an issue and I wasn't given much information other than "oh you're miscarrying expected the cramps to get worse and more blood". So is it normal, maybe start of my period restarting?