Hello I have a big question don't really wanna talk to me friends or my family about it ... if your pregnant & going through the pregnancy Alone the child father didn't help u with anything from feeding u to helping u with things u can't do because your pregnant... are u wrong for giving the baby your last name? I feel that if he wanted his child to have his lastname he would of been around while u were pregnant but wait to the baby born n think he will have his lastname is a no go from me this is my baby he will have my lastname is that wrong??