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what would you do?

Your 13 year old tells you she wants to bring home her boyfriend.

You didn't even know she had a boyfriend.

You've been 'allowing' her to be an 'adult' (no constant checking up, giving her her privacy) because she expressed how little liberty she's allowed and how much she hates it and basically threatened to go live with her dad if you don't give her the liberty she 'needs' and 'deserves' 🙄

So she wants to bring him over to meet you, the mom, and wants to make it a regular thing (him coming over to spend time with her in and out of the bedroom).

Apparently his mom has no issue letting your daughter go over to her son's house, so the point of all of this is so they can have alternate houses to go to.

Yes, they are having sex 😞 and you don't know whether they are using protection. He is 15 years old.

What would you do? Put yourself in my shoes.

I will not reply because I'm too ashamed of showing my face. But I appreciate all responses.

Thanks in advance 🙂

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