Vent, very long.

My inlaws are seriously pissing me off.

I was getting annoyed pretty regularly while pregnant and now that baby is a month old I'm at the point where I just don't want to see them for a very long time.

First they didn't respect our wishes to be left alone at the hospital after we had baby, barged into our room while I was trying to feed, then showed up again later unannounced the same day. And then we saw them every day for a week, finally got them to back off a bit, I let my husband blame it on me being tired. But when they did come over they would stay for so long! 10pm is not a appropriate time to stay till imo when parents are getting up every 2-3 hours.

And everytime we see them i get talks from my fil about how my mil would like to see baby more, he actually gave me shit for not inviting her to have my daughters cast taken off! And we've told them a million times we aren't going to let people see her until she gets her shots and they keep trying to get us to go places with them so their friends can see her.

And the biggest thing that's pissed me off is they told people (I don't know how many yet, my SIL told us this) that they were worried that my baby has something wrong with her cuz they don't hear her cry, she asleep 99% of the time they see her, she had her cord around her neck when born, but she never had anything cut off long enough to be damaged. Why the $@&$ would you go around telling people you are worried she has brain damage or something? Who does that?!

Oh and they are assuming I have ppd because my mil and sil did. I don't, I feel great. But they won't let it drop, every time they see me they ask about it and then start talking about her or other people who suffered from it. And keep pressing me to have them over to help. I don't need help with anything. But they don't seem to believe me 😥