Boyfriend Mistakes Me As His Best Friend Instead

Which is not a bad thing. He is my best friend and I am his. But when it comes to sex sometimes I feel as if it's like friends with benefits but who are in love with each other. But then sex sometimes is usually our passionate rough sex. Who else gets high fives after sex!?! I know I do.
He is barely sweet to me like he used to be, I'm the one who spoils him and does stuff for him without him even asking. Because I love to make my boyfriend happy. He usually is mean to me in a joking way but it's all the time to where it is annoying....he likes to joke with me and be stupid with me most of the time, and it isn't a bad thing just a girl just wants to be spoiled sometimes too and that doesn't mean take me on a date, it means offer to rub my back or hair cause I can't fall asleep good after working a night shift. Or make me dinner or breakfast. The little things is what matters most to me. 
I'm lost you guys, I do not want to give up on him because I love him to pieces and he is my best friend. What should I do??