am i not allowed to do these things anymore

My mom gave me a big fat huge i told you so because im 21 and getting married she told me "no more fun, hes not gone let you do this and  that" a few weeks ago i was at my friends so when he got home from work he called me pissed asking where i was at and how its not ok to be out that late then last night my girls wanted to hang after the movie for drinks I invited them over to my place and once  again he was so pissed "asking me do ik what time it is, (it was 2) why do i let them think this is ok" embarrassed me. I thought i was doing the right thing. Im shocked because I never thought hed be the guy my mom said I always told her no he doesn't mind. But something changed. Im a junior I never really had friends til now but i still barely go out because im so focused on school, work then coming home so i think every now and then I deserve fun, we dont havd kids, and were never at clubs most likely at each others houses just drinking, smoking playing games or watching tv. Is this really not ok anymore? Is my invisible curfew once your married 1 o'clock?