I am going to leave this anonymous here.

Is it okay to be with someone that can't take action when he is wrong and blames you for everything? I am starting to notice my bf is blaming me for EVERYTHING. He cheated on me emotionally wise with another female. A couple months later he made a secret fb that he never once told me about. I've been feeling pretty down about myself now and I haven't got the chance to talk to him or any one really about how I truly feel in the inside. I finally talked to him about how I have been feeling ever since he made those mistakes and he cussed and cussed and cussed at me pointing fingers saying everything its my fault why all that happened in the first place. Saying maybe if I wasn't such a "bitch" he wouldn't have done it. But yet I stood with him to work out what? I can't move on if I don't get closure about why he did it and without telling how why I feel the way I feel today ...

But if I cheated emotionally wise, if I blamed him for my actions my wrong doings he wouldn't be with me right now. Someone please answer me /: