Ways to help dilate?

Katrina Rose • Having a baby with the most amazing man on this earth. Been together 5 years! Due February 16th 2017. Our first baby .

Is there anything I can do to help me dilate? Anything that worked for you? 2 weeks ago my doctor said my cervix is completely softened. But my last appointment she didn't check me she checks me this Friday. I just want to be somewhat dilated! My baby completely dropped already and I was waiting for January to get over before I started to help myself dilate,