herpes

So I went to doc today bc I haven't been feeling well below since having my baby. My six weeks is up on the 9th. Well come to find out I have a bladder infection from the cathiders at birth.. in top of that he said my clitoris is swollen n looks like a form of herpes.. I get tested n have messed with the same dude for two years.. he said not to worry bc it could of been in my body from years ago but pregnancy n birth eith hormone changes made it appear.. has anybody ever had this?