should i be mad???

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okay so my boyfriend's dad offered to give him his company if he didn't go into the military (the company is a 6 figure company 🤑). my boyfriend said "my dad was hinting you could move in with us too" (we're in a LDR) and I said I can't (i just got a job and a lease signed) and this was his response. i'm waiting for my doctors apt because i got a positive pregnancy test (😍😍😍!!!!), but am i in the wrong for getting pissed off at this? like he (possibly) got me pregnant and he's not even gonna offer to move down here for my convenience so i can be with my family and my ob for my first pregnancy? 
plus WHAT GUY IN THEIR RIGHT DAMN MIND TELLS A GIRL SHES BEING EMOTIONAL LOL

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Homeboy is just trying to secure your and that potential babies future and sometime you have to be the one to compromise and make sacrifices. Plus I think we are all hella emotional and moody during pregnancy it only natural. Just a thought

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He seems like he just got his feelings hurt because you turned him down about something he was so excited for

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To me it really seems like in his opinion, he just thinks the best option would be for you to move in with him so that he could have the job and be with you during your pregnancy. It's totally understandable that you would want him to move to you, but he's probably thinking if he did that, he would need to find a job where you are, (if he decided not to go in the military) but that probably seems like a waste to him considering he's been offered a 6 figure job with his Father's company. On the other hand, if he joined the military, it would be completely up to the military where he goes and he might not always be available to help you in that case either. So he probably just thinks that out of those options, taking that job and having you move to him is his best option :) But you know better than anyone how you feel and how he treats you, you need to do what makes you comfortable and safe and happy!!! :)

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He's trying to help, he wants you all to be a family and he wants to secure a future for you and the baby. I'd reconsider moving in with him, girl. Especially if you love him 😊

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Tbh yea I'd be upset a little bit but I think you can talk it out. Like first of all it'd be his baby too. Secondly, you've just signed a lease and he needs to be there for you and the child so if he wants you to move up there he should show support in trying to get rid of the lease or work around it. And whatever he's trying to say about him being in the wrong all the time needs to be addressed, you two should talk about what he means and how he feels and how yall can come to a medium between what both of you want.

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Well first he didn't get your pregnant lol you both made that decision together. Second it sounds like he means well and wants you to move be in with him

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Me personally, do you. Do what you need to do. I'm married, and I'm a little selfish, but my husband knows all moves I make is for the future, with or without him. He is very supportive. Going to school, if I need to move for a job, because if thing ultimately didn't work out, I still have my education and a career that will be mine and he wouldn't be able to take that away.

should i be mad???

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