sex drive and birth control

I know that birth control effects everyone differently. For example I was taking a pill called Mononessa for over two years and besides the terrible migraines and dizzy spells I gave me everyday it also absolutely killed my sex drive. Honestly I didn't have sex FOR A YEAR or even have the urge to pleasure myself! And I'm 23! 😭 Anyway I stopped taking it and almost right away my headaches and dizzy spells were gone. And four months later BAM 💥 my sex drive came back with vengeance! 🙏🏻🙌🏻  So now I need to go back on the pill. I was reading online to see if there is a hormone in that birth control that was responsible for having killed my sex drive so I know to choose one without it but I read other women actually like Mononessa.  It's so frustrating finding a pill that works for your body. I've tried 3 different pills and although they have been successful at preventing pregnancy the side effects were just too severe. How long did it take you ladies to find a kind birth control that you are happy with and what is it?