how can i stop wanting sex?
before my boyfriend and i got together (officially) our sex was great. we've been dating for almost six months and everything feels like it's dwindled for him. he doesn't want to have sex, is always too tired. i, on the other hand, have a high libido, so i would be fine doing it all the time. im lucky if we have sex 3x a month and then he makes it feel like a two minute chore( i almost never finish, mostly because i feel like im forcing him). when we do have sex, i can't enjoy myself because i know he's simply doing it to get me to shut up. after every session i tell myself I'll just shut up and let him initiate it. but he doesn't. even when i try to initiate it, i get "go on to bed and ill be in in a little bit." I go to the bedroom, wait hours and he'll come in and wake me up, tell me he's too tired and pass out. he doesn't work, he's not gay, hell idk he could be cheating on me but i don't think that's the case, honestly. my concerns more lie with me him just not finding me sexually attractive anymore. ive tried talking to him about it and he gets angry, saying im overly sexual, etc. so yeah. at this point he's said he could live without sex. so idk the question is how do i not want sex anymore?
ps, i masturbate but obvs not getting what i need.
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