So we had our 12 week scan, the first time seeing my baby and it was meant to be such a happy time. It was anything but. The NT ultrasound showed my bub to measure 4.7mm in nuchal translucency. 3.5 and below being the norm. The midwife really scared me and I got ushered into a room to be talked over my options. It was all so negative. So a private harmony DNA scan that's 99.9% effective or a cvs and later amnio if needed. We ended up going private and paying and now awaiting the result tho we are told these are not diagnostic either. So confused! Of course I'll love my baby whatever but the fear of heart problems or fatal chromosomal issues just breaks me. Anyone else been here? I know it's common for all to be ok.. just seems to be all statistics I guess.