Why am i here then?

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Mom just told me no woman should ever get pregnant and that she wished she hadn't, I officially feel unwanted

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Your mom sounds like a bitch who can't handle responsibility. No offense.

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I'm sorry but your mom is a piece of shit. Just cut her out of your life when you're old enough. She's not a mom, she's an egg donee. Never let her make you feel unwanted. Your dad wants you, your future husband wants you, your future kids want you. Never let her around your future kids. She doesn't deserve the mom title, let alone the grandma title. It's best to close her out now.

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Sounds like your mother is like mine. My mum used to tell me she wishes she never had me and now I'm the bad person for moving out and becoming independant at 18 because I wanted to get away from her emotional abuse. It's not nice, hey

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You are here on this earth for a reason! Don't listen to that crap

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Wow... that's a little harsh

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Just remember that you're not the problem. She is obviously dealing with her own issues and you are not the issue hun. This has nothing to do with you. Talk to her about it. Maybe you can get some insite. I have learned so much about my mom from just talking to her, even when she is lashing out at me over her own problems. Don't take on a burden of feeling unwanted, look at it as a way to reach out. She is the only mom you have and she obviously has some deep unresolved issues.

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Uhh maybe she was joking. Talk to her if this is the first time her saying this. I have no mom and I would take this over nothing.

Why am i here then?

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