I lost my virginity twice?

So I had sex with my at the time bf who was my first and I didn't bleed or feel sore/hurt at all like how my friends describe losing their virginity so 3 years later I have a new bf and we begin having sex and he pointed out the first time we had sex i started bleeding quite a bit and even felt sore after sex like my friends described. So I'm confused Idk if my new bf popped my cherry and "took my virginity" my first bf had a small penis compared to my new bf so Idk if he my old bf was able to break my hymen so I'm confused help pls😭😭