am i wrong for thinking this way ??

Some men think that women cant teach a man how to be a man at all. I disagree we cant teach them certain things cause we havent been in there shoes and thats when dad comes in but as a women myself me and my fiance pretty much have the same idea on what it is to be a man he just have a more deeper idea which is ok. The convo today was about sleepovers i said that i dont find it gay if my son wanted to have a sleepover with his  best friend even if they were 17 they are human like honestly his dad on the other hand says that men dont have sleep overs. And as his mother i said i will sit down and tell my son that stuff like that dont define ur manhood or wether or not ur a man its more deep meaning to what is it to be a man for example men own up to when they're wrong. Its bad enough men are born with the odds stacked against then the moment they are born there's already thousands of stereotypes that will soon be thrown in they face for the rest of they lives . One common one is that men dont  cry . I disagree i want my son to knw that its ok to cry and mostly its ok to talk to me about whatever is on his mind. It takes to parents to raise a man not one .my fiance feels like i cant have certain convos with my son these two being the ones i camt have with him and he said that he will tell my son to not talk to me about certain things smh