Am I the only one??

That keeps on believing that if you have found your man then you should show a bit of submission to him and he should treat you like his Queen but also having the upper hand. It's kinda weird, for me is the best thing when I do anything he wants and he kepps on making my every day struggles to vanish...Takes too much out of a woman to have her man pleased in every way... There gotta be someone out there that can get what I'm saying right??