how to love living in a city I hate?? please advise me :/ my husband refuses to move.
I hate this city.
I don't belong here, I fit in with no one and even though I was born and raised here- not even the locals believe I'm from here because I'm different.
It's a top city for crime. Having someone get murdered is just the norm. It's nearly impossible to be from here and be able to say you don't know anyone who's been murdered.
For me it was my sister, brutally killed and raped.
I've been raped here.
And my mother has been robbed at gun point two or three times.
My family is low key, no drama no friends. We've ALWAYS stayed to ourselves.
I want to get out of this city and state. It's not getting better.
But my husband refuses to move because his family lives here and he says "they're all he has"
I wanted to encase myself in hobbies but there's. Not much to do cept drink and party. No book clubs, no sewing clubs, no chef clubs, or anything. I'm a personal trainer so fitness classes are just beyond me right now.
I don't want to grow to have a grudge on my husband for keeping me here, I need help
Job transferring is not a problem at all, i actually accepted the offer from my company because it will transfer me when I put in for it. He works for the same company so jobs are not the problem.
And he does see a world outside of it but he refuses to leave his family.
It's not an attachment to the city, it's mom and dad. He can't leave them because as he tells me daily they're all he has..
Kind of makes me feel bad. Like what exactly am I then?
He gave me a distance limitation- can't move more than one hour away from mom and dad but this crime the dangers here the crappy people... it's going to take more than an hours drive to get away from it.
And even more so than my own misery.. I DO NOT want o have my children here.
Having kids here is just a death sentence, I refuse.
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