why do I feel obsessed and what can help!?

Does anyone else feel bored AF trying to conceive? I feel like I don't look forward to much of anything but the few days a month of the fertile window. I guess I'm obsessed with conceiving and nothing else in life gets me excited anymore. I'm in my 30s and just started trying. Does anyone have any tips on how to relax and still enjoy life while this is going on? Any activities you all enjoy on days off work or anything to help calm?