I seriously can't stand when people try to tell me things about being a mom.. I'm 38 weeks pregnant and if I had a dollar for everytime someone wanted to put their input in on everything, I'd be very very rich. So I plan on breastfeeding and I've ALWAYS wanted to breastfeed my kids and my step dad, yes a freaking guy who has no idea what it's like.. decided to say something to my mom how I wasted money on a breast pump, a nursing bra, and breast pads. Like what... I'm counfused how his opinion is supposed to be included in my life. Like I'm probably over reacting but I'm super upset someone in my family would say this. I'm going to be a stay at home mom so I will be able to have plenty of time to dedicate to breast feeding. Then you have the people who tell you there's no way I'll be able to give birth with out an epidural. Or that changing diapers is super gross, like you don't say? Lmao. I'm really just done with people I wish they'd just stfu.  Thanks to everyone who read this and listened to my venting. I appreciate you.