How does everyone else feel about having visitors at the hospital to meet the baby. I feel like I would rather just wait til I got home to have people meet the baby. It is going to be so overwhelming already with another baby and would be much crazier having people visit. Then I feel like if you open visiting up to some you have to open it up to all. My first was born out of state so I didn't have to worry about it. It this time I'm around all my family and friends. Do you think at rude to say I don't want visitors in the hospital so I have time to myself to bond with the baby first?