Anyone else frustrated?

Brittany Love
I'm 39 weeks & 2 days, and might I say, absolutely miserable! I've had so much pain in my lower back and hips, extremely nauseous with a terrible headache, so swollen I can barley walk, and the diarrhea (sorry, lol) is ridiculous. I've been stuck at 1cm dilated for the past 2 1/2 weeks, my cervix is refusing to progress any further and my P.A. doesn't help me any answer any questions or concerns that I am having or have had. I'm a high risk pregnancy and just want to make sure everything is okay but I don't feel like I'm taken seriously. It is really starting to take a toll on my body and I'm not sure how much longer I can do this, don't get me wrong please, I love my little girl more than anything but I just need her out sooner than later. Has any other mama tried safe at home inducing and had it work ? Any advice would be great at this point, please no rude comments or bashing.