why won't he go down on me?

Question

my boyfriend and i have been together for over two years and he has only gone downtown 3 or 4 times. i give him a steady supply of bjs so it's not like it's a mutual thing. our sex life otherwise is good and he's an amazing guy, i just wish he liked to go down on me. i don't know how to talk to him about it. any advice?

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When my boyfriend and I got together he told me he'd never done it and wasn't confident doing it.

A couple months later he tried it and he was amazing!  I really boosted his confidence and then he just insisted on doing it a lot more.

He's stopped recently but only because I'm really heavily pregnant and it freaks him out lol.

Just boost his confidence with it and let him know how much you like it.

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I would just come out with how you feel theres noeasy way to put it across to him. Maybe hes just not into oral sex.

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Well what did he say when you asked him? Depending on his answer maybe you should stop giving him a lot of BJs unless you really enjoying giving them

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Sometimes guys just aren't confident down there. Talk to him. Make it easy and delicious! Tell him no matter what he does it will feel good and that if it hurts you'll tell him.

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My boyfriend said he doesn't like it because it makes his tongue hurt and I think he said he doesn't like the taste. I don't give him BJs either for the same reasons. Just ask him.

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I'd just talk to him about it and ask why he doesn't. Maybe he's just uncomfortable with it or needs to get more used to it. If he's not into it, I can see how that could make you feel insecure, but it could just be that it's not really his thing or he needs to warm up to the idea of it. Either way, talk to him. He won't know unless you do. My bf doesn't do it very often either but I have spotting like all the time, so I totally understand.

why won't he go down on me?

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