With me, my aunt didn't even congratulate me. All she said was "so when is #3 coming?"and my reply was "never?! 🤔🙄" I had a high risk pregnancy, and have one of each gender so I'm done. But it's just super annoying. I also hated when people would say "sleep when baby sleeps" yeah okay, I'll let my toddler roam free I guess 😂