Sick of people's judgment about names

I don't know any of you ladies on here, but let me just say, some of you are just down right plain rude and so unhelpful, I've come to the conclusion I'm not telling anyone I know what we are naming our baby until the DAY He or she is born because of some of the expierences I've had on here trying to figure out final names... I refuse to be talked down to and told what my baby's name should be and insulted, I get I am looking for opinions and it's fine for someone to disagree with me, but some of you just go about it the wrong way and can really hurt someone's feelings. It's so rude to me how some people can react if they don't like a name... if you don't like it, TOO BAD. am I the only one who feels this way???? 😡😡😡 makes me sick... telling me my child will kill his or herself over a name is taking it too far!!!!!