guys and their hair

My boyfriend is super weird about his hair. Like I get it he doesn't want me to touch it when he did it and everything but like before bed when he's just gonna wash it anyways I don't get. It honestly seems really douchey to me😂 I don't get mad or anything but his hair is so soft and fluffy I just wanna run my fingers through it:( is anyone else's man like this about their hair?