How can I "train" myself to get use to orgasming by my partner? I use dildos and other sex toys when I masturbate, and I usually only actually orgasm if I'm in the bath using the faucet against me. I don't know if this has anything to do with it, but my boyfriend pointed out that my clit is hard to find. I never really thought about this before but I defiantly have a hooded clit.