No sex drive! How do your SOs handle it?

Mandy
I am currently 18 weeks pregnant and I have no sex drive. My husband and I have sex about once a month. Part of the reason why I don't want to have sex is I've been a little crampy almost every night and sex just makes it worse. He's been doing little things to try and initiate and tonight he left out sexy lingerie he just bought for me and I felt so bad because I am just not in the mood. Anybody else having this issue? Any tips on helping boost my sex drive?