Need advice ladys

Sandra
So mad at our neighbor ... We haven't told anyone yet we were pregnant except our landlord her daughter is our neighbor which she told which I didn't mind but I did tell her to keep it a secret because we were planning a fun big reveal for my husbands dads birthday ...well my aunt started sending me baby suggestions I thought was weird and the landlords son that's my husbands friend said his sister told our biggest mouth family member who told everyone else but that haven't told us they know...I cried all night when I found out ...its our first kid and the landlord daughter told everyone 😭 the land lord has terminal cancer and I like her so I don't blame her but the daughter I want to confront because she knew it was a secret from our familys as well as my brother in law ...I don't get a baby shower or anything this was to be a baby slash gender reveal and now I'm thinking about canceling it ...what should I do about the situation? Sigh so heart broken