husband and being intimate

It's been a month since I lost my baby (in uterou ) and I'm finally no longer bleeding. 
My partner was acting weird tonight so I asked him if he was mad at me. He said no and then said "so we're not going to be intimate anymore?" Meaning sex. 
I was really taken back. emotionally I am not ready. I thought I made this clear but I guess not. I told him I would let him know when I was and he look like he accepted it. Yet I know he hasn't but knows not to pick a fight. 
How do I work through this? How do I get him to understand. Emotionally I'm just not there yet. It was a big deal. I'm actually surprised he is bouncing back like he has. 
Please no "leave him" comments as that is not realistic.