what does it mean?

I talked to my ex last week and a few days later he texted saying we can't kick it. But I didn't even ask him to. So I talked to him yesterday and he's telling me I'm not a priority but he doesn't hate me. Again, I didn't ask.. so I don't get what the point of him telling me this is..? When I asked he said that he didn't want me to think we were going to. I'm like ok but I didn't ask!!!! 😡