What would you do if your man did this to you?

Hi ladies, I would like to know what would you do if your boyfriend did this to you ... So yesterday my grandfather got to the hospital and I can say that he is dying and it's very hard on me because I love him so much, so today I spent all my day sitting next to him and it was really hard to watch him dying and on the same time not telling him what is happening to him and acting like he's in a very good health. So at 8:00 pm I went back home and my bf wanted us to take a rider together in my new car so even though I'm so tired, I took a shower and went there to see him. While I'm on my way he called me to ask where I am and then he asked me about where I told my parents that I'm going (since my parents don't like us being alone together at night, thought we are both 20 years old), so I told him that I told my mom that I'm going out with him and another couple to eat ice cream and to show them my new car then he said, fine because if you told them that you are going out with Alice (one friend of mine that he hates) then you would turn your way home and I won't go out with you, so I got really got mad about what he said and I told him sorry but I'm not working for you to control me this way and order me when to come and go, so he said okay then, I'm not going out with you now so turn your way back home, so I told him but in 3 minutes I'll be next to your house (its 20 min in a car between my house and his),  so he was like I'm going out with my friend and I got there and his friend got there too so he came to my window and yelled at me (go back home or stay parking here alone coz I'm going with my friend and not you), and he went to his friends car and left me there. I'm so mad and I don't know how should I deal with this. Like I'm so tired and it has been a really hard day for me and maybe my answer wasn't polite but on the same time I feel like he exaggerated!! What should I do now? (We didn't talk since then)