How do you talk dirty?

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Whenever we're going at it I always want to talk dirty to him & really get him going, but I feel so awkward and I honestly have no idea what to say.

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I think it has to come naturally. Personally, my husband and I would big start laughing if I started saying over the top cheesy lines. I think he prefers when I'm truely enjoying myself instead of forcing awkward sex lines.

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I think what helps is asking him what he likes to hear. What he wants you to say. By asking there are certain words I don't like saying when referring to my private areas and same with him. Ask to avoid him getting turned off or awkward. Ask him in a slight "out of breath" tone what he feels, if he likes, why he likes it, and if he wants more.

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It will be awkward but you just have to get through it. I was hella awkward the first time my man asked me to talk dirty. I didn't know what to say and when i finally thought of something i would be like "ok. I got it. I'm ready." and then literally nothing would come out. It was just minutes of silence. Then when i finally got myself to say stuff it came out like a whisper and i felt awkward. But you just have to embrace the awkwardness and practice.

As far as what to say, it doesn't have to be over the top dirty cheesy porn talk. Just start with saying how good you feel, ask how he feels, what you want him to do, etc. Then you can increase from there!

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I call him "Daddy" and say things like "do you like that", "fuck me harder", "make me cum" etc. I know it can be awkward at times but it makes sex so much better, not only for him, but for you too.

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Personally I would never call my boyfriend "daddy" I feel like it's disrespectful to both your real father and boyfriend. And it sounds dumb

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I say shit like "ooh you like that, you wanna fuck baby?" but I say it like "do you want to fuck Baby (me)" not like "do you want to fuck, baby" with a comma like he's the baby. He's the big strapping man. I tell him his normalish dick is huge and hurts a little bit because it's so massive and I call him Daddy. He knows it's a bunch of bullshit but we don't care. Oh and I also look him right in the nipples and start taunting him like "oh bitch you want this!?" and then I suck the damn things off and bite the shit out of them too.

How do you talk dirty?

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