a little help 😞

I'm currently 31 weeks pregnant, when we have intercourse it hurts and it's just really uncomfortable. I haven't given him head since I've been pregnant because my gag reflex is now shit and he hasn't done anything to me because of that. I can't get wet so I explained that if he used his tongue it would be easier and more relaxing for me rather than rubbing when dry because it makes it raw! But it's like he's avoiding it because I'm not sucking him... I know TMI!! I don't push him to do anything I don't even ask I just suggest once and that's it end of convo. Can anyone give me advice please on what to do?