So my sister just recently had her baby. Her baby was born 18 weeks early and was in the nicu, had brain bleeds, and her potassium was way to high. Her baby lived for 2 days and they pulled the plug, because she was in so much pain living and there was nothing the doctors could do because they max her out on medication. It is really hard on my sister and I was wondering if anyone here has been through a situation like this, were they had a baby and got to hold them, watched them try to get help and nothing help. If so would you be willing to talk to my sister about how you got through that tough time?